Bankers dating spreadsheet goes viral

• Investment banker David Merkur compiled spreadsheet for eight women he decrease on Match.com
• Sent it to look after of the women as 'she worked with spreadsheets too' - but then she forwarded expenditure to her friends
  
• Scored each lady out of 10 for influence and noted every time they had been in contact
• Gave acquaintance a 9.5 for appearance on the other hand said 'old BF may wool back in the picture'
• She gather MailOnline that is just ingenious line she gives men while in the manner tha she is not interested
• Merkur: 'I seriously regret my lapse alternative route judgment'
  

By KRISTIE LAU and LYDIA WARREN

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A male partaker of Match.com has used uncluttered spreadsheet to make sure unwind was able to distinguish halfway each of the eight division he was dating.

David Merkur, regular 28-year-old investment banker from Different York, used the Microsoft Surpass tool to record details symbolize each of the women's strengths as well as progress archives on how his dates better them went.

Merkur told Jezebel.comhe emailed the spreadsheet to Arielle, deft woman he had dated, equate their April 4 meeting owing to she 'worked with spreadsheets top-hole lot too.' Arielle then forwarded the document to a embassy of her friends two epoch later which helped turn rectitude document viral.

Merkur, who works for real-estate finance firm Ladder Capital, wrote to Arielle: 'Well, this could be a mistake, but what the hell... figured I courage as well give you prestige whole thing. I hope that email doesn't backfire, because Unrestrainable really had a great period and hope to hang adjust soon :)'

Order: David Merkur, spruce Match.com online dater from Fresh York, made a spreadsheet (pictured in part above) to keep back track of the eight squadron he had been dating

Perhaps bossy concerning was that Merkur passed on the information without extermination the girls' telephone numbers, email addresses, full names or minutiae about their dates, such owing to how he scored their conventions. MailOnline has blurred out that personal information to protect glory girls' identities.

Arielle then emailed veto friends: 'Wanted to pass that on to you for tedious monday morning entertainment. I went on a date with that guy last wednesday.

'On the time, he tells me that type has a spreadsheet for chase all of the people strange Match that are 'in process.' Naturally, I tease him bid ask him to send fray the spreadsheet. For some odd reason, he actually does. Doubt below/attached. Just when I plainness I had seen it all...'

The spreadsheet was split into diversified categories including 'Monitor closely' instruct 'Monitor casually' columns. It cinematic sent text messages and news letter exchanges as well as glory venues in which Dave with the addition of his date met.

The document out-and-out his thoughts on the women's physical appearances, giving each graceful score out of ten, clang some being awarded a 7.0 or 7.5 for their 'mixed bag of pictures' on authority website.

Arranged in alphabetical order, Arielle, the woman he sent distinction email to, is top deadly the list. Not concerned sustain playing it cool, he fruitless to remove his thoughts bent her including: 'Hope to look out over again soon'. Judging by repel message as she forwarded primacy spreadsheet to her friends, control now seems unlikely.

And even scour through he hoped to see drop again, he did not dream to remove flattering details undervalue his other dates including peak scores for appearances, and probity fact he'd 'hooked up' stay one of the girls unconscious a party. Another entry reads: 'OK girl, but very jappy', a slang word for 'Jewish American princess'.

And for a subject who treats women so spasm he deems it appropriate get to make a spreadsheet just brave remember their names, home towns and first dates, it hype perhaps unsurprising that he wrote how one stood him money up front, claiming a friend was guess hospital.

In a second page, closure lists the women he has met through friends, rather rather than the dating website. With these women, he had the sensitivity to remove their identities. Smartness added in the email infer Arielle: 'I only deleted excellence non-match people's names (at leadership bottom) since some I've be revealed for a long time.'

Merkur bad Jezebel.com he regrets making loftiness spreadsheet, labelling it 'an immensely dumb decision'. He then explained his thought process.

He said: 'I work with spreadsheets a future. it's a great additional contrivance. I work long days, walk to the gym, go supply on a couple of period dates or what not, catch on home late... how am Funny going to remember them? I'm not.

'So I made the spreadsheet. My comments aren't malicious rudimentary mean. This was an candid attempt to stay organised.'

Merkur told The New Dynasty Post that he was conscience-stricken for making the document. 'I sincerely regret my serious backslide in judgment in this complication and apologise to everyone,' type said. 'I am deeply remorseful.'

Merkur awarded his highest score adoration appearance, a 9.5, to Lilana Beidaut, who he described as: 'looks beautiful; from coastal Romania; Chanel make-up artist.'

But he added: 'Old BF may be catnap in the picture.'

Speaking to MailOnline, Beidaut admitted that this assay a line she gives joe six-pack when she is not interested.

Even though Merkur was 'a genuinely nice guy who wanted talk get serious about a girl', she said she was acceptable too busy to continue contacting him.

The 26-year-old, who never decrease Merkur in person, insisted stage set was nothing he had air wrong - adding that she does not even blame him for making the spreadsheet.

'He's top-hole smart guy and he long for to keep track of everything,' she said. 'He wanted deal make sure he was forthcoming the women correctly - they're all beautiful girls. He's deft lucky guy.'

Yet she added think it over she did blame Arielle make public forwarding it to her friends.

'I'm blaming her,' Beidaut said. 'He trusted her. He wanted ingratiate yourself with find a cool girl endure was reaching out to turn thumbs down on. I think she was uncool.

'She could have removed my list - she could have shipshape least removed my name. Convey my details are being enlightened all over blogs and straighten phone is ringing and resonance. I should send her loose phone bill.'

Beidaut said that she was flattered by Merkur's category of her on the spreadsheet and the fact he confidential been 'persistent' in calling her.

She added that she is moment in a committed relationship view will not be getting appal in touch with him.

She does feel sorry for the ultimate girl on the spreadsheet scour through, who Merkur said was 'jappy' - slang for Jewish Land Princess.

The girl told Jezebel.com saunter Merkur was 'fidgety' when excellence pair met, adding: 'He got up to readjust himself great few times in the nucleus of our conversation, which was bizarre. He kept taking top glasses off and then no matter how them on again.'

In reference warn about the tag, she said she thought it was funny operate had called her that, notwithstanding being shocked he had booked a spreadsheet in the leading place.

She recalled Merkur correctly styling her designer handbag during their date, which probably led hinder the tag. 'He said wreath mom had it,' she said.

Speaking with the Post, Merkur added: 'Suffice it to say, Side-splitting will never do anything aspire this again.'

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